Another piece of the puzzle is revealed in the linked article:
For those struggling with codependency - excellent article. Straightforward and concise. Are you the giver or the taker?
https://time.com/5349927/codependent-relationship-signs/?fbclid=IwAR3U7lFCqWcBH-xjmFPFD_vLXume8ZhhUawxrimFl5oWR4BC2uc1d_W0n_g
Trivia - the bloom of the daylily, pictured above, last for one day.